Few events stand out in my life, as this story I’m about to reveal. Undoubtedly it was another of those seminal moments when a child takes a large step forward in maturity. I had been given two white doves and through my fecklessness had lost them. At first I believed it to be the biggest tragedy in my life. Not long afterwards, a subsequent incident forever changed my mind on that subject – it was a lesson learned that when things look at their worse there are two possible scenarios in the offing – either things will look up or they’ll get worse, at times much worse.